Florida Divorce Frequently Asked Questions

What to Consider When Choosing an Attorney for Your Florida Divorce

Selecting a Divorce Lawyer

Here are the questions you need to ask any attorney you are thinking of hiring to represent you in your divorce:
  • How long have you been practicing family law in Florida?

    This question helps you understand whether the attorney has substantial experience navigating Florida's family law system. Look for attorneys who have practiced for several years and have deep familiarity with local court procedures in Pinellas, Pasco, and Hillsborough Counties. Gary E. Williams has been practicing in the tri-county area for over 20 years and has extensive experience in all three counties.

  • What percentage of your practice is dedicated to family law and divorce?

    Family law is complex and constantly evolving. You want an attorney who focuses primarily on this area rather than a general practitioner who handles divorces occasionally. Ideally, look for someone whose practice is devoted to Marital and Family Law only. Gary E. Williams, Attorney at Law, practices only in the area of Marital and Family Law and our attorney is a Board Certified Expert in the field.

  • Are you certified by the Florida Bar as a specialist in marital and family law?

    Florida Bar Board Certification in Marital and Family Law is the highest level of competency recognized by the Florida Bar. Less than 2% of Florida attorneys hold this certification, which requires demonstrated expertise, peer review, and ongoing education. Gary E Williams has been Board Certified as an expert since 2013 and he earned his designation as an expert in Family Trial Law in 2015 from the National Board of Trial Advocates.

  • Have you handled cases in Pinellas, Pasco, and Hillsborough County courts?

    Local experience matters. Each county has its own judges, procedures, and local rules. An attorney familiar with the 6th Judicial Circuit (Pinellas and Pasco) and the 13th Judicial Circuit (Hillsborough) will know what to expect and how to navigate the system efficiently.

  • Do you have experience with cases involving complex assets like mine?

    High-asset divorces require specialized knowledge of business valuation, tax implications, retirement accounts, stock options, and other complex financial instruments. Ask about specific experience with assets similar to yours. Gary E. Williams happen to also have an MBA and he has completed the training for being a Certified Divorce Financial Analysts. He knows his way around complex financial documents.

  • What is your track record with high-asset or high-conflict divorces?

    Request information about outcomes in cases similar to yours. While past results don't guarantee future outcomes, they demonstrate capability and experience handling complex matters. Gary E. Williams has had extensive experience with both high-assets and high-conflict divorces and know how to handle both types of cases.

  • Have you handled cases involving business valuation or international assets?

    Be specific about your concerns. If you own a business, have international assets, or anticipate custody disputes, ensure the attorney has relevant experience in those areas. In each of these areas, Gary E. Williams has handled many cases involving business valuations, international assets and hidden assets. He also has the experience and expertise that you need the attorney who represents you to possess.

  • Do you have trial experience, or do you primarily settle cases?

    You want an attorney skilled in both negotiation and litigation. Even if you hope to settle, having an attorney with trial experience strengthens your negotiating position and ensures you're prepared if settlement fails. Since Gary E Williams is the only family law attorney in Pinellas County, Florida who is Board Certified by the Florida Bar in Marital and Family Law and who is also certified by the National Board of Trial Advocates as an expert in Family Law Trials, he has more trial experience than most attorneys in this area.

  • Have you handled appeals in family law cases?

    Appellate experience demonstrates deep legal knowledge and the ability to handle complex legal issues. This is particularly important in high-asset or high-conflict cases where appeals may be necessary. Gary E. Williams has represented clients in over 60 appeals, and he have acquired the experience and training to know what appellate judges expect.

  • What continuing education or training have you completed in family law?

    Family law changes frequently. Attorneys committed to ongoing education through seminars, certifications, and professional organizations stay current on legal developments and best practices. Gary E Williams has invested hours of time each month to my continuing professional

    development, not only to stay current on developments in case law, but also to learn how to best serve his clients.

  • What is your general approach to resolving divorce cases?

    Attorneys vary in their approach, some prioritize aggressive litigation, while others focus on collaborative resolution. Choose an attorney whose philosophy aligns with your goals and values. The bottom line is that you need an attorney who is adept at being a litigator and a peacemaker and who knows when to apply each set of skills. Gary E Williams is a marital and family law trial attorney, a collaborative divorce attorney and a family law mediator. He knows what skill set is called for in your case.

  • Do you prioritize settlement, mediation, or litigation?

    Most cases settle but you want an attorney who can evaluate when settlement makes sense and when litigation is necessary. Understanding their default approach helps you assess compatibility. Frequently, the best way to get to a settlement is to make the other side know that you are fully prepared to go to trial. A technique that Gary E Williams use frequently.

  • How do you balance being aggressive with being reasonable?

    Effective advocacy requires knowing when to push hard and when to compromise. Ask for examples of how they've balanced these priorities in past cases. We approach each case with the hope that it can be an amicable process, where we focus on a fair resolution of financial issues and a co-operative approach to parental responsibility and timesharing. But fear not, we can be just as aggressive as we need to be to ensure that the “other side” knows that we can play hardball.

  • What is your philosophy on involving children in custody disputes?

    Children should be protected from parental conflict. Look for an attorney who prioritizes children's wellbeing and minimizes their exposure to disputes. Gary has a rule with every client, he will not ever do anything that he thinks is not in the best interest of your children. He has had clients who demanded that we take certain action that we did not find to be wise and that they were harmful to their children; those clients were asked to find another lawyer to represent them.

  • How do you manage high-conflict situations between parties?

    High-conflict cases require specific strategies, including structured communication, parenting coordinators, and sometimes court intervention. Ask any prospective attorney you talk to about their experience and approach. Gary’s approach is to work to dampen the level of conflict and to

    work toward an amicable resolution. But, if that is not possible, then he knows how to fight fire with fire.

  • Do you work collaboratively with other professionals such as forensic accountants, custody evaluators, and Guardian ad Litem’s?

    Complex cases often require a team approach. As an attorney with established relationships with qualified experts Gary can put together stronger cases and achieve better outcomes for his clients.

  • How do you help clients prepare emotionally and financially for divorce?

    Divorce affects all aspects of life. Good attorneys guide clients through practical preparations, including financial planning, document gathering, and emotional support resources. Gary has helped over 2,300 clients reorganize their lives over the past 20 + years.

  • What outcomes have you achieved in cases like mine?

    While confidentiality limits what attorneys can share, they should be able to discuss general outcomes and strategies in similar cases. Gary can give you examples of the result in cases similar to yours